Jonathan and his parents
At 9:30, my doctor broke my water and at 12pm I was 100% effaced, at station -1 and 4 cm dilated. Two hours later I was at 5 cm. At 3pm I was ready for something to take the edge off the contractions. I wanted to go as far as I could naturally but it was really starting to hurt. I immediately felt relief when she gave me a small dose of some narcotic… but shortly after I felt out of control, couldn't stay focused or recover before the next contraction started. At this point I was having “Pitocin contractions” where they would be long, plateau on the monitor, go down a little, then a whole other one would start without ANY break! This time frame is a blur to me- I just remember not getting enough time in between contractions to breathe! I got up to go to the bathroom which helped, but not enough. I had Jonathan remove our moms and said no more visitors. Jonathan was by my side the whole time encouraging me as I breathed through the contractions but at one point he was saying something and I shook my finger at him! So sorry honey- I know you were just trying to help! At about 4pm I asked for an epidural. I was 8 cm dilated and fully effaced but in excruciating pain- the narcotic hadn’t worked like I thought it would. The nurse asked me “are you sure you want one? You’re a poster child for natural childbirth, you’re doing great!” I said I wanted to enjoy this last bit and I want it now! The epidural was complete 40 min later (I just made my window!) and I was 9.5 cm. dilated at 5pm. I could still feel my contractions in my right groin, but it wasn’t horrible- they actually helped tell when to push. Thank God I got the epidural, both doctors from my doctor’s office were held up in an emergency c-section, so we waited for an hour before I really started pushing. After I had the epidural the whole room changed, we sat and talked with the nurse and with my doctor when she came to check on me. We even laughed about how the baby needed to come before the shift change! I pushed in sets of 3 or 4 for 10 seconds each… and did this about 3 or 4 times. And Elizabeth was born at 6:54pm!
Elizabeth all cleaned up!
Jonathan cut the cord and she was wrapped in a blanket and put on my chest. She immediately put both fists in her mouth so our first feeding was shortly after! Jonathan held her for a few minutes then the nurses weighed and measured her, stamped her feet, and gave her her first bath. She came out with bright red hair and deep blue eyes… just like we thought (Jonathan and I were both born with red hair)! We got to spend the next half hour or so just the three of us before we started taking shifts of visitors!
The proud daddy
And the very good looking, young and proud Grandpa!
2 comments:
Brittany I LOVED reading this! Labor is pretty painful but it's just the coolest thing. It sounded like Jonathan was an amazing support system for you, and you go girl getting that far on your own without an epidural! I guess next time you and I could really go without, but it sure was nice to be able to push without the excruciating pain of the contractions!! Elizabeth is absolutely beautiful!
So happy for you guys! She is just beautiful! I can't believe you went that long without and epidural! Pitocin is cruel and unusual punishment! Let us know if you need anything.
Katie and Andrew
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